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What is LOVE asking right now?

Such a powerful question, and a gorgeous reframe anytime I’m feeling out of balance.

For me, this week, it has been asking me to fill my own cup.

To ask first what I need before giving to others.

To stop REACTING in the name of being who I think others need me to be.

To pay attention to what belongs to me and what belongs to someone else.

To set the boundaries.

To go within.

To connect with Source.

To spend as much time as possible on the land.

To eat acr…

Like, no joke, rolling around on the floor WRESTLED with this thing called vul-ner-a-bil-ity

I have defended myself against the defense mechanism inherent in vulnerability.

I have hidden from it, cajoled it, loved it, hated it, abandoned it, given it too much attention in the landscape of my life, I have indulged in it, I have locked it in the kitchen cupboard for fear it would annihilate me.

Sometimes I have even asked it what it needs, or taken it for a walk, or placed it at the center of m…

Be. Here. Now.

We want to be in FLOW.

We want the Universe to grant our every wish.

We want people around us to rally up in support of us.

We are always seeking that elusive external confirmation that what we are doing, who we are being, and what we desire to have, is working.

When we are drowning in our own stories, our own fear, our own shit storm...

When we have not filled up our own cup...

When we have not worshipped first at our own feet, we keep ourselves searching.

We keep WANTING…

I believe that everything is possible and that clarity is available in a moment’s notice.

Not in an annoying, “I only believe in positive thinking,” kind of a way.

Not in an, “I’m happy all the time,” kind of way. Because seriously people. Even you spiritual folks out there. Enough with the whitewashing.

But in the powerful truth that our badass selves can create exactly what we desire.

Right now. Because that is our birthright.

Because that is our innate super power. What could be possible…

Today has not gone according to my master plan.

Which is kind of hilarious, actually, to imagine that I had a master plan to begin with.

I awoke at 7 am to discover the power was out in my house, for, like, the 5th time this winter. And it was 27 degrees F outside.

I built a fire in my giant fireplace which looks great but doesn’t tend to emit heat, mainly, I guess, to console myself.

My dog and I jumped in the car in search of coffee only to discover that the main road out of our neighborho…

You do not trust your connection to Source.

Beloved,

You do not trust your connection to Source. You have forgotten how POWERFUL you truly are.

You actually believe that you alone are running your business (and your life).

You are worshipping lack and scarcity in the name of being strong, not trusting anyone (including yourself), and proving/struggling/hustling your way to wealth and WORTH.

You are already worthy.

You were worthy before you even began your business.

You just forgot for a …

Your Soul Matters - Be radically curious.

As 2019 begins I am getting radically curious. Already, on the 3rd day of this year, what I thought my business would look like this year, or even this first quarter, has changed.

I am showing up differently in my life and my business than even a month ago. The type of client the business is attracting has shifted. My team is shifting and growing. I have dropped into myself in a way that frankly surprises me; because I thought I was already there.

I w…

Don't let your fears run the show!

I don’t know about you, but I spent YEARS in my business trying to make my fears okay. I tried to dialogue with it - I also tried to mask or ignore it with positive thinking.

The end result?

I still had frigging fear popping up all over the place and it was keeping me in resistance. For, like, 17 years. Let me go ahead and save you 17 years of trial and tribulation. Trust me, this will be the best 8 minutes you spend this year.

Most of us in the spiritual d…